Promise?!?!

Promise?!?! Looking for the definition of promise, and this is what I got from Google. "A declaration assuring that one will or will not do something; a vow" But it seem that now a day people don't really get what it is mean! They tend to make promise and forget about it. So what for in the first place you promise it? Maybe to some people it don't seem to be a big matter. But to some it does. Like those who take promise seriously. It hurt when you do not do what you promise. Because in the first place, when you promise them, they will tend to wait for it happily till the day come. But when it reach the day, you tell them " Oh! I'm sorry. I'm too busy." or " I'm sorry! I've forget about it. And I promise my friend to eat with them." The feeling was like from heaven drop till hell man! First time : never mind. Second time : it ok. Third time : GIVE UP, will never ever believe the promise again. So if you want to make a promise, think before you do. If you know that you can't do it than don't promise it. It better to be sad first than when she/he is so happy, but in the end it come with a bad ending. A quote from Jack Neo twitter " 做不到就不要承诺，　承诺了就不要做不到“